Monday, December 22, 2008

when it snows and its really cold outside...


I get all of my laundry done and put away.


I can cuddle on the couch with the kids and watch Christmas specials.


I indulge in cooking a lot of food.


I even bake.


I am able to organize the bedrooms with the kids.


I don't have to rush around.


I listen to Christmas music.


I dress in warm, comfy clothes.


I tie up all the loose ends for Christmas.


I hang out with my family.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Monday, December 15, 2008

Dear Santa,


















I have been really good this year.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Rotary Phones

Heavy, clunky, colorful, nostalgic rotary phones.

This particular phone hung on a kitchen wall in my childhood home.
When it rang, you knew it.
It had a loud, bell like, jingling ring that could be heard throughout the whole house and out into the yard.

When you wanted to call and catch up with a friend, you were committed to making that phone call. There was an amount of concentration as your fingers quickly poked each number, pulled the dial to where it stopped and waited patiently as it made its way, slowly back to its original place. You may have found yourself singing the numbers with the rhythm of the rotary dial, as to not lose track of the phone number. If you messed up, there was no redial, you would have to start fresh from the beginning.

Conversations on a phone like this were what they should be, uninterrupted, actual conversations with the person on the other end of the line. There were none of the features that are available today, no call waiting to interrupt, no caller id to screen calls, no hold buttons, no mute buttons and no 3 way calling. I don't want to get into the slew of "techy", "gadgety", things that my husband has on his phone, so I will keep this part of the post streamlined.

There was no multitasking on a phone that kept you within a 3 foot radius of itself.

You were given permission to sit down, relax and enjoy a conversation.

Its weird how having so much and being so accessible to everything makes you wish for the simple things of your childhood.
Things, that just by being, forced you to slow down and catch your breath.....
I just wish my husband would agree.

Friday, December 12, 2008

virtual weight gain

chocolate~peanut butter~chex mix....

9 cups rice chex
1 cup chocolate chips
1/2 cup peanut butter
1/4 cup butter or margarine
1 tsp vanilla
1 1/2 cups powdered sugar


  1. Measure cereal into large bowl, set aside.
  2. Put chocolate chips, peanut butter and butter in microwave (uncovered) for 1 min on high; stir; another 30 seconds until smooth. Stir in vanilla. Pour mixture over cereal, stirring until coated.
  3. Pour into 2 gallon plastic bag
  4. Add powdered sugar into bag, seal, shake until well coated.
  5. Spread on waxed paper to cool
  6. Store in sealed container in refrigerator.




cake balls...

1 package chocolate cake mix
1 container prepared chocolate frosting
1 pkg almond bark- white chocolate flavor

  1. Bake cake according to package
  2. When cake is done, crumble while warm into a large bowl, and stir in the frosting until well blended.
  3. Use a spoon to form balls of the chocolate cake mixture, put on waxed paper and chill in refrigerator.
  4. Melt white chocolate in the microwave, stirring occasionally until smooth.
  5. Dip the balls in chocolate using a toothpick or fork to hold them.
  6. Place on waxed paper and back to refrigerator to set.


Thursday, December 4, 2008

not budging

We believe in Santa Clause at our house.
He will be making a visit to our house on December 24th to grab a few cookies, hang the stockings and leave each of the 3 kids, one special gift.

For weeks, Avery has been telling everyone that she would like a Disney Talking Nursery for Christmas.
If you are not familiar with this, its a rather large, overpriced item that has mixed reviews from parents who have purchased it.
I have been putting off purchasing this, hoping that she would lose interest and pointing out other alternatives, my efforts have not been effective.

Avery is in love with this toy.

She told me that she wants to write Santa a letter to make sure that he knows that it is at Toys R Us, gotta love those marketing geniuses that fit that into the ad, and to not let the elves make one.....ugh!
I have resigned to the fact that she is not budging, this is THE toy....the toy that will make her Christmas complete in her little 5 year old eyes. Now, I am trying to find the damn thing, because apparently, its a hot gift and not be found anywhere online!
It is out of stock.
I did a google search and found 2 sites that had them for 3 times the retail price.....no way!!!
I am on a wait list to be notified when it is in stock and I am going to check out the actual stores tonight after work.....hoping for the best and pissed that I waited so long.

I have great appreciation for those who paved the way for us....and they didn't even have Internet access in the 80's!




I can only imagine the exhaustion and shear determination it took for my parents to score me my beloved cabbage patch kid, Aldus Barlow. Always an offbeat kid, I begged for a bald, boy Cabbage Patch Kid....get harder to find.....but he was there waiting for me on Christmas morning in 1983.

Santa got all of the glory, but I know now that my parents stalked Kids Town and Child World until they made my Christmas magical.

How can I not give Avery the same magic and memories.....?

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

merry, merry

It is time to get the holiday cards out to my family and friends.
I like to get them mailed out the first week of December, which means that I am staging photo shoots in October. I need to ensure the proper amount of time needed to get the shots, edit the pictures, create templates, order in bulk and await shipment of cards and envelopes before they make their way to their recipients.

Its a labor of love.

Each year, I have these cute ideas of getting the 3 kids in some sort of festive moment.
I plan out in my head how to pull it off for the camera, only to have my difficult models protest all of my direction and refuse any and all attempts of a creative Christmas photo.

Fortunately, collages make a suitable format for 3 separate subjects that need to be brought together aesthetically....but, not my original concept.

2006 card........

2007 card......

my parents card last year.....



This year, I was really unmotivated and quite frankly, lost track of time and wasn't able to take the steps that I have in the past. So, I used a favorite photo image that I had on file, chose a pre-made template on a photo site and came up with the wording for the card.....done! Just waiting for my shipment to arrive so I can mail them out....'tis the season!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

oh happy day!


Happy Birthday Avery!


5 years old

You are my sugary~sweet, funny~faced, smarty~pants, princess~diva~big~girl.
I love you so much!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

lightbulb moment


I have figured out why I am not totally in love with the baking process.

Baking is a very precise and accurate skill, measurements and time are most important to ending the procedure with a successful final product.....and I am definitely a season and taste kind of girl.

When I cook, I like to throw in a little of this and little of that, taste, determine what may or may not be needed, and go from there.....I always tweak my recipes to suit my style and taste.....always.

Come to think of it, this is the way I approach all of my creative mediums, even hair.....I have a foundation that I start with and build as I go.

It is quite fulfilling to me.

Unfortunately, this style is not really conducive to baking, so I have never felt completely confident, and I really appreciate those who excel with baking skills.

I stress out trying to sift and pack the dry ingredients while keeping my liquids precise in my measuring cups. Double checking at eye level is painful when I have to remove a little excess because I poured at the wrong angle. I have to be so careful not to confuse the the baking powder with the baking soda or the different types of sugars.....it gets rough for me.

Yesterday, I conquered some more baking territory and made these really yummy king sized cupcakes for Avery's, post-early Thanksgiving dinner-family-birthday-mini-celebration (long story).
OK, so I used boxed mixes, but I still had to count eggs and measure liquids, my demise.....but I prevailed.

The cupcakes are so big and I made 4 different flavors....pink vanilla, rich chocolate fudge, lemon and apple cake with sautéed apples, butter, brown sugar and cinnamon on top.
Something for everyone, as we have specific requirements in our family!

My favorite part was decorating and adding my thing with the apple topping.....so there was a little bit of me in them!

chicken lasagna


hot, cheesy, bubbly, gooey, yummy goodness......mmmmm




  • 8 ounces lasagna noodles
  • 1 pound chicken, cubed
  • 1/2 cup chopped onion
  • 1 jar (about 16 ounces) spaghetti sauce
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon dried leaf oregano, crumbled
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried leaf basil, crumbled
  • 1 1/2 cups ricotta cheese
  • 1 cup shredded mozzarella cheese
  • 1 cup shredded Monterey Jack cheese
  • 3/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese



Cook lasagna noodles according to package directions; drain and set aside.
In a large skillet, cook chicken, garlic powder, salt, oregano, basil and onion.
Stir in spaghetti sauce to let simmer.
In a deep casserole dish, layer the lasagna noodles, ricotta cheese, sauce, mozzarella cheese, Monterey Jack cheese, and Parmesan cheeses.
Repeat layers twice.
Bake lasagna for 20 minutes covered at 375, and for 10 minutes uncovered.....until thoroughly heated and bubbly.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

brilliant!

An easy way to get the kids organised and ready for the day.....



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